Rt. Rev. Mary Lou Cook
Non-traditional Weddings

For years I have performed non-traditional weddings in Santa Fe. These weddings are not religious, they are spiritual; for persons of different backgrounds looking for simplicity and meaning. My ceremony offers a belief system of peace, trust and the universal power of love and forgiveness. We celebrate Spirit; as we remember the importance of grace, laughter, listening to our heart, giving unconditional love and honoring our connection with Nature.
 
This presents another way, other than the shoulds and musts of old rules and rigidity, plus the stress of a large wedding. Many couples opt for simplicity and natural circumstances. The meaning and informality increase with a small group. I always encourage flexibility and open mindedness. First, the ceremony reflects the couple involved, and so can include readings and notes from absent friends and family. Second, location can be chosen from my lists of gardens, chapels, homes and our beautiful mountains.
 
Some other ideas incorporated into the occasion: the ceremony is calligraphed into a small handmade book which is presented to the couple, children of the blended family are included, the rings are blessed by all, and the couple is invited to plant a tree in honor of this day. It is a comfortable event, where dress can be up or down.
 
Great numbers of couples come to Santa Fe to be married. Indeed, it is a perfect place with its beauty, history and charm. However, I warn anyone prone to altitude illness to remember this is 7,000 ft..Having lived here for 30 years, I can easily help someone from out of town who doesn't know who to call for what. I'll be happy to hear from you. 505-983-2894

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